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Online marketing strategy consulting since 2001, combining expertise in technology, content, SEO, and link building.

A content marketing and link building tool that helps you research, create, and promote better content, faster and easier.

Learn about my own path of personal growth including some stories, thoughts, and practices on living a good life.

For Women: Finding Your Power in Radiance, Ravishment, & Surrender

For Men: Discover Your Solidity, Connect Deeply with Women, & Live a Life of Purpose

For Couples: Reconnecting and Deepening the Intimacy in Your Relationship

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  • I’ve typically kept my Facebook account open only to people I know. A few years ago, I cut about 3/4 of the people and dropped it to under 250 people. Since then I’ve kept it between 250 and 300. Today, that changes. Since last summer, when I started publishing content for Full Feminine and began […]

  • I remember my dad telling me at some point in my life, that when you’re stuck and don’t know what to do, it’s like having rowed out into the middle of a lake and then fog has come in. You can’t see the shore. You can’t see more than 5 feet away from you. What […]

  • I was having a conversation with a single friend recently. He was talking about some challenges he was having with dating now, and also ones he saw coming up in the future. For men, dating is hard. I’m not saying it’s easy for women, but it’s a very different thing. Most men feel a responsibility […]

  • On Ontolo’s Link Building Tools…

    Link building is hard - really, really hard. Ontolo tries to productize many of the manual tasks, searches and tracking processes of link building with an extensive, diverse toolset....everything from .gov/.edu finders, to competitor link searches, to content research and backlink tracking/monitoring. ... Ontolo's team is constantly upgrading the service and functionality.

    — Rand Fishkin, CEO, Moz

  • On Coaching Women…

    “Ben is a genius at his work. I thought I had reached the peak of my intimate connections, and after working with him my relationship with my husband and friends went to a new depth I hadn’t previously thought possible. Ben helped me realize how I was hiding the most powerful part of my femininity and gave me tangible advice on how to bring that into all my connections, making them more fulfilling, loving and open. I now feel more beautiful, more loved and more centered than before our work together. Thank you Ben!”

    — Christin Myrick

  • On Ontolo’s Link Building Tools…

    I love what the Ontolo guys are doing with their toolset. This is one we are actively looking into to work out how we can get more out of it.

    — Will Critchlow. Founder, Distilled

  • On Coaching Women…

    “Ben’s remarkable in the way that he can see both my little girl and powerful woman simultaneously. Working with Ben freed me up to embrace my vulnerable, sweet side in a way that I never had before. This directly impacted my relationship with my husband who loves that side of me and isn’t able to always access her. My courage to open up, gave him the courage to do that same and it took our intimacy and communication to a new level. Going through the process with Ben also provided new meaning to my work with teenagers who are so desperately trying to distance themselves from their childhood, yet that is the source of their native brilliance. As a result I feel whole, feminine, powerful, and gentle all at the same time. I wholeheartedly recommend working with Ben if you are at a place where you want to fully embrace your deepest self!”

    — Sheri Smith, Professional Ignitor

  • On Ontolo’s Link Building Tools…

    With a single click of a button, you can discover the most relevant and valuable link prospects for your link building campaign, be it content marketing and guest posting, sponsorships and donation-based, niche web directory submissions, or many, many more.

    — Andy Beal. CEO, Trackur

  • On Coaching Women…

    “Ben has a powerful depth of presence that creates a safe space to be fully seen and heard in whichever combination of my masculine and feminine essence I currently embody. His clarity and focus only comforts and encourages me to relax into the depths of my own natural feminine essence. And, the fact that he loves women is a plus!”

    — Stephanie Yost, Women’s Coach, Gumtree Growth